Jacob - Soccer Star

I just finished coaching Jacob's Under-5 soccer team at the local YMCA. It was a lot of fun, and the kids actually improved during the season. At first, I felt it was a hopeless cause - you should have seen the first game and the level of "play". But they came along way and became better soccer players, including Jacob. He was able to score a few goals during the year, play a little defense (which is rare in this league) and generally keep his attention on the game.

I was always afraid I would was too hard on him for his lack of concentration or effort because he was my son. As your own child, you are allowed to express your disapproval more than toward the other children. You also have the pride component. I learned about myself in coaching him. I generally did OK despite some mistakes on my part. I was very glad to do it, and I think he feels the same. He said he wants to play next year, and for me to be his coach.

However, the best part of soccer for Jacob is getting to climb the pine trees right behind the field after the game or practice is over. In fact, I used it as an incentive as in "If you play hard today, I will let you climb the tree after the game." He is an OK-soccer player, but he is a fantastic tree climber. Here are some pictures from the season including some tree climbing adventures.